Celebrating the Oblate Associates
By Armelle and Louis Molin
1. To become associates
We have been in contact with the Oblates since 1973. In 1986, we participated in a workshop on “Personality and Human Relations” directed by Father Lomer Laplante O.M.I. Through personal reflection and sharing with the other members of the group, we discovered a profound and nearly urgent desire to live a “missionary experience“ which led us to our first trip to Bolivia in 1987. We remained in Bolivia during 10 out of 15 years, because we also wanted to spend time with our family in Canada.
In 1989, when we were in Bolivia, we received a letter from F. Alain Piché O.M.I. who was at the time Provincial in Manitoba, inviting us to become associates of the congregation. This was a surprise and an honor which we took seriously. F. Louis Jolicoeur guided us during a time of preparation and on October 9, 1989 we made our first commitment in the Oblate chapel in Cochabamba, Bolivia. Armelle remembers that she felt as on her wedding day; she was entering a new phase of her life, a phase filled with promises and challenges. She felt privileged to belong to a missionary congregation and her wish was to always be worthy of such an honor. On the other hand, Louis felt more of an affiliation with the Oblates, a partnership where he would seek example and orientation.
We worked with abandoned children who entered the Amanecer institution. As associate, Armelle became responsible for the preparation of the boys who wished to receive the sacraments; she was able to listen to their suffering and to accompany them on their young life’s path. Louis’ responsibility was the maintenance of the 10 homes of Amanecer, inviting the boys to give him a hand, teaching them a few tricks of the trade but most of all, the importance of a job well done. We also learned that very little is required to make a child smile, few words or actions are needed to make him feel protected and valued.
2. Shared Life
In the fall of 1990, we were in the rain forest in the tropical region of Bolivia where the heat and humidity are tremendous. Louis was in a state of extreme fatigue and arthritic pain when he went to Santa Cruz to buy a tractor for the farm we were managing. He stayed with the Oblates. When the tractor was purchased and he was ready to leave, F. Henri Bujold said:”Stay one more day, you can rest a while before returning to your workplace.”
Every year, the Oblates would invite us to their annual retreat. That year, at the time of the offerings at the closing mass, F. Bujold presented a pair of sandals, symbolizing the hard labor we were doing in the hot and humid climate of the tropics.
A few months later, we all met in Manitoba where we were for a time of rest. At the close of a meeting at the MAMI Centre in Winnipeg, F.Bujold announced most simply that he was coming to our place for the night. He did not know how special that was for us. We keep an indelible memory of this great Oblate.
3. The mission
During our time in Bolivia, we had been invited to accompany F. Roberto Lacasse O.M.I. as well two other associates and a few Oblate scholastics who regularly went to the distant rural communities. There, we discovered a totally unknown universe, roads that were barely passable even by jeep, the stinging cold on the high plateaus of the Andes, the meager vegetation, the poorly nourished sheep, the people who were so destitute, but we also saw their smiles and visible friendship the next morning as we shared the breakfast we had brought especially for them. We then appreciated the courage of the Oblates to maintain this mission, bringing to these far away people some comfort and hope.
It is also with F. Lacasse that we organized a series of encounters for married couples, encounters which proved to be beneficial for the Bolivian participants as well as for ourselves. The same F. Lacasse was the first pastor of the Saint Eugene de Mazenod parish inaugurated in 2001 on the outskirts of Cochabamba. It is with enthusiasm that we gave him a helping hand in the areas of electricity, confection of window curtains, refurnishing etc. Back in Canada, with the contributions of our benefactors, we were able to financially help in setting up a Pastoral Centre for the formation of catechists who would be called to teach in the remote sectors of the parish.
In July of 2009, F. Lacasse was visiting family in the state of Maine, USA. Since it was our 50th wedding anniversary that year, we invited him to come and celebrate with us. The presence of a missionary Oblate at our anniversary was a special gift from Heaven.
Back in Canada, it has become easier for us to approach those who are lonely, hurt, handicapped, to listen to them, to accompany them on their sometimes difficult path. That is surely one of the benefits of our time in Bolivia.
4. The Future
One way of becoming more visible as Associates and Oblates working together would be to create projects in common, but that seems to be somewhat difficult because of different lifestyles, age, health conditions, travelling distances etc. Possibly it would not be necessary to accomplish “great things” but to function as associates where we are, to be present to the most fragile, to participate in the life of the Church according to our talents and capabilities etc. Regular encounters with other associates are also very important.
In our experience as Associates, we have lived wonderful moments of complicity, friendship, personal and spiritual growth. On the other hand, we have also known tensions, apprehensions, including total rejection on the part of one Belgian member of the Congregation in Bolivia. Those are hardships but also opportunities to forgive and grow as persons and as Christians.
We thank you for this opportunity to share some of our souvenirs and observations. We wish you many blessings.
This first appeared in Catholic Missions in Canada, November, 2004 (Vol.8,no 2). Reprinted with permission.
I was born in a Catholic family of six, including my father and mother, on December 20th, 1978. I hail from the Eastern part of Kenya under the foot of Mt. Kenya. In school I liked to do the things children like doing most, playing games and singing in groups, but above all, I liked my books. Then I joined high school for grades 9 to 12; as a boarder this meant a stay away from home. It was not long before I finished my grade 12 and it was in this setting that I first came into contact with the
identify with: their generosity, hospitality and love for the poor, “…the poor with their many faces;” as it is expressed in our Constitutions and Rules. Above all, I was drawn by our founder’s courage, and daring – his courage and daring to love and to be generous; “Leave nothing undared!” he emphasized to those whom he had gathered. This courage is remarkable and I find it an imperative, especially to us Oblates so popularly referred to as “The specialists in difficult missions”. To be one of those who participate in this Oblate mission is my desire.
and living in a Scholasticate with an international community of fifty-nine Oblates. Members are from eleven different countries, across and outside the continent. The Oblates have evangelised in Cameroon for sixty years and the province covers Cameroon, Nigeria and Chad. They are found in a number of parishes and in institutions of education. Despite the difficulties, Oblates are committed and faithful to their mission of bringing Christians to a full awareness of their dignity in society and calling them to participate fully. They draw joy and happiness from those with whom they work and let themselves be enriched and touched by the warmth of the poor. In the words of Rule 8A, “…for they can make us hear in new ways the Gospel we proclaim.” I see Oblates reaching out to those who need them most.